I’m on a collegiate Tae Kwon Do team and recently I’ve started to question why some things on my team are just accepted as normal. After big events or competitions my coach will take us to bars and get trashed. She also had a party at her house, got really trashed, and was like making out with my friend in the bathroom. I know, on every forum people keep saying they’re two consenting adults, but it still feels fucking weird! She also flirted with me, calling me and my other friend sooo hot and like straddling my friend. Especially since my coach is so formal during practice and we have to treat her with the utmost respect as our “master.” I also found out she like invited herself to my other friend’s apartment and was swearing up and down, drinking, and that my friend felt really uncomfortable. This is weird, right??